Souls Market !

When you have something you want to sell the first point you focus on is how much the buyer would pay you for this product ! you don't care how he looks like ! or how he talks, or even what he believes in but if -for some reason- you found out that he is actually a good person you would consider this as a PLUS but what If the product that you want to sell is your daughter !

And before you get me wrong, I am talking about families that is totally concerned on whoever wants to marry their daughter about how much he has in his bank account? what is his salary? is he able to pay X Number for the marriage costs ! These people makes me feel sick and I am sorry about them too because from many points of view, they think that they who could control the future of their daughters by securing their financial situation so they put a list of minimum requirements, standards for that poor guy ! because they think that this guy salary is what could makes their daughter & him live happy,rich and NOT GOD ! but what happen if god will decided to take from that person what he gave him ? who could stop that?
why these families think that they are who make the money ! Why can't they just see that we are all just tools ! we do what we are supposed to do and results are always from god, you could do your best and reach nothing !! and that's what they should care about ? Is he doing what he is supposed to do ? what his personality is like?

I really want to know who put these stupid standards inside their heads? did god told us that ?
They all know that all what god ordered in the guy willing to marriage is : his religion/his ethics (men ga2kom tardon denho w 7'alkh fa ZoJOG) this is a simple clear direct order to make your daughter marry who got these standards "ZOGOH" but you could find a smart families saying yes he must be having these ethics bla bla, but it's also important to be in our SAME LEVEL if not higher !

Well first, I agree that he should be from the same social layer so that it could be easy to communicate with each others ! but that has nothing to do with how much he got? he could be from a very good family, and apparently he is good ! but he is poor ! what is the big deal of that ?

About the fake excuse of "Life is hard, he must afford her a nice living style bla bla" well AGAIN AND AGAIN, you are not the one who is responsible for feeding your self - ITS GOD- AND SO IS HE !

We are from the very few countries that applies the most weird marriage system despite that our religion is having the simplest marriage system in history ! "Kobol (attraction) between two persons, then he goes ask her family if he is good enough from their point of view in ethics, religion" then BOOM they are married !

And god warned us from caring about other things cauz in the same "7ades" he followed after saying " Mn Ga2kom Tardonh Denho w 7'alkh fa zojoh " he said : "W 2an lam ykon tkon fatnA fe al a2rd w Fsad" !!

and that's what happening now : 3nosa as (2 from every 10 girls marry in the age between 20-25) ... Zana (as guys are not able to marry )

If a guy salary is 1000 le, they tell him this not enough ! I just heard so from a friend who had a personal experience about that :D !!
then what happen if this family knew that 45% of Egypt whole population their income is less than 1$ per day, that means 60% per month which is about 350 le ! so this guy who is salary is 1000 le considered from the middle class with good average salaries in Egypt ! lol

Shar AL Balaya ma yod7k ... Rabna yahdehm :)


K.K